Wife is dating black man

18 Apr

People treat you the way you teach them to treat you.I think that before any sista can complain about how she is treated by a Black man, she must first decide what it is about her that would allow him to mistreat her.In other words, before we can go on the attack we have to take ownership of our own issues.I guarantee that the relationship did not begin with him mistreating you. This is why it is important to nip any bad behavior from your boo in the butt at first sight.Some would never consider marrying someone who wasn’t the same ethnicity as them, so let me tell you why I did.Expectations To be honest, I always expected to marry a black woman. I can remember sitting at her dining room table and her refusing to allow me to call back a guy I was dating who suddenly decided unbeknownst to me, that he no longer wanted to have anything to do with me.Let me start by first reflecting on one of my grandmother’s mantras.

Everything was going well: her hair looked great, she was surrounded by her friends, and she was dancing with a pretty cute guy she’d just met on the dance floor.

I had a lot of attention growing up being the baby and all, but my main source of affection came from my Dad.

My mom began studying for her Bachelor’s degree when I was 2 so I spent most of my free time watching WWF and eating Doritos with my Dad for nearly a decade.

There are a lot of “Daddy’s Girls” out there, but I am not one of them.

To define our relationship like that would misconstrue it; we were simpatico. I’d say it was bad experiences throughout school which probably made me much more accepting.