What to know about dating a chinese man

22 Apr

So I've decided to write a series of blog posts about dating Asian men.

And yes I know I'm not a relationship expert, a PUA, or even a wingwoman. Indeed men are men, but there's still a fairly large gap in dating when it comes to black women and Asian men. When many Chinese children think of homemade cooking, they don’t think of mom standing over a hot stove; but rather, recall fond memories of dad boiling stews, rolling up won tons or preparing a hot bowl of tan yuan (sweet dumplings) for dessert. In most Shanghainese households, it’s not the woman working hard in the kitchen every night–it’s the man.Do men in China feel it's desirable to be friends (like a best friend) with the wife? Do Chinese men tend to like to be enmeshed in a marriage relationship? share the events of the day with the wife or share problems with each other or share money, dreams, goals, etc.)? Do Chinese husbands enjoy asking their wives for help or do they avoid this like the plague? How Do Chinese men typically feel in marriage about keeping their marriage instilled with romanticism, love, passion, private time together, sex, and fun ?Do Chinese men typically feel that marriage is not the place for "love and romanticism" but just an institution of convenience or for survival (have children and to acquire property, have a foundation, etc.)?