Dating a man going through a separation

05 Apr

I lost my virginity, to my ex husband we lasted for eight years we had 2 kids but he cheated and I left him, than I met someone else, but I had a lot of problems with his kids and ex wife.

He always taking their side so now I'm going to leave him, it hurts but I think I deserve someone better. I lost my virginity, to my ex husband we lasted for eight years we had 2 kids but he cheated and I left him, than I met someone else, but I had a lot of problems with his kids and ex wife.

Now, as a married woman myself, I can say with some degree of certainty that if my husband and I were to divorce, I wouldn’t want to rush right back into another serious relationship. All circumstance are different, so it’s hard to say if a person should date someone who is in the process of a divorce or not.

While most divorces can be sad, nasty and drawn out, others can be quick and painless.

The questions that follow each section are questions to consider when you’re thinking about whether to continuing seeing him—especially if you have the intention of dating with the purpose of finding a life-partner.

These questions might not be as important to you if you’re just dating recreationally and short term.

And ultimately help you get clearer insight on whether or not this is a relationship where you want to go into deeper levels of commitment.

I treat them as kings but they don't appreciated. Give yourself some time to heal from this one, kick back a while and become TOTALLY content in your singlehood, go out and do things you love to do, and DON' T look for a man.

Would I ever going meet someone who's going to really appreciate me and love me? When you're looking, you're less selective. When you're NOT looking, the right one will come along and be undeniable.

Shutterstock A couple of days ago a friend and I were discussing another mutual friend–we’ll call her “Roslyn”–who was going through a divorce.

Although the divorce hadn’t been finalized, her and her no ex-husband went their separate ways nearly two years ago.